When it comes to narcissists, there is a lot of confusion about what happens when their “supply” is exhausted.
Some people seem to think that the narcissist will just up and leave once they’ve had enough, while others believe that the narcissist will stick around until they’ve milked the relationship for all it’s worth.
When a narcissist’s supply is exhausted, it means that they no longer have anyone or anything to give them the validation they need.
So, what really happens when a narcissist’s supply is exhausted?
1. What is a narcissist’s “supply?”
A narcissist’s “supply” is essentially anything that they can use to bolster their ego. This could be something as simple as compliments or admiration, or it could be more concrete things like money, sex, or power.
Narcissists are very needy and will do whatever it takes to get their “fix” of supply.
2. How does a narcissist react when their supply is exhausted?
When their supply is exhausted, a narcissist will typically react in one of three ways:
1. They may become enraged and become destructive or abusive.
2. They may retreat into themselves and become depressed or seclusive.
3. They may find a new source of supply to replace the old one.
4. How can you protect yourself from a narcissist whose supply has been exhausted?
If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist and you see signs that their supply is running low, it’s important to take steps to protect yourself. Some ways to do this include:
1. Establishing boundaries with the narcissist and enforcing them firmly.
2. Keep communication to a minimum and avoid doing anything that could give the narcissist ammunition to attack you.
3. Removing yourself from situations where the narcissist can harm or manipulate you.
4. Put distance between yourself and the narcissist, both physically and emotionally.
Bottom Line
Narcissists are not capable of genuine love. When their supply is exhausted, they discard their victims without a second thought. This can be very damaging to the victim who may struggle for years trying to understand what happened.
If you have been in a relationship with a narcissist, it is important to realize that you were never loved and work on forgiving yourself. You are not at fault for the way the narcissist behaved.
There is hope for healing after being in a relationship with a narcissist. Seek out support from friends, family, or professionals to begin the process of rebuilding your life.